Great, Loving, and Forever relationship

 One of the worst things in the world is to be in a relationship that is not working.

Have you been there? Are you there now? 

The question is, why do we get into relationships that turn sour, go bad, don't work? Why do some relationships work for a few weeks, or a few months, maybe even a few years?

It's all about what we don't know. We don't know about our partner. We don't know ourselves. We simply don't know enough.

When was the last time you took a class on relationships? Have you taken the 5 Love Language quiz? Have you ever bought a book on relationships?

The book that started it all and helps you discover the love of your life. The Twenty  https://stevesapato.com/the-twenty/

The Audiobook  https://www.audible.com/pd/The-Twenty-Audiobook/B0FG3H7JLZ?source_code=ASSGB149080119000H&share_location=pdp

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Do you begin to see that we cannot create what we cannot master. You took lessons to be good at something. You took a class or seminar on how to sell? How to be a manager? How to play tennis?

But never on relationships.

Here's a quick video for you. https://youtu.be/Y0z5A97jUyQ

The Dog that I call love.

The Dog that I call love.

Now what does that mean? Love is what you decide it is. Love for me is being and finding a partner that I will treat like a dog and they will do the same for me. I know, that offends some people because they want to jump to all kinds of conclusions.

But what I am hoping I have found and what I am hoping my partner has found is that amazing sweetness that a dog offers to you, unconditionally.

A partner who never takes offense even when you inadvertently hurt them. One who is always excited to see you. One who gets off of their chair when you get home just to give you kisses. And one who loves to snuggle and be near to you.

One who, when you leave, misses you and even if you are gone for a few minutes or a few days is just as excited that you came back!

One who looks at you with all the love in their hearts and offers that to you every day of their life until they take that last breath.

Yes, and I am offering that love that I call Dog.

And I hope you find the love you are looking for also.

Steve Sapato

Relationship Coach and mentor to help you find the love of your life. When you are ready to be coached to a great life in love drop Steve a note steve@stevesapato.com

and order The Twenty, things you need to learn in order to find the love of your life

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Finding love through fear

Once I thought everyone wanted the same romantic relationship as I did, then I started listening, learning, reading and studying. Now I understand how fragile we all are, how any pain sends most people running into the recesses of their minds and they won't share their real feelings. Fear. Hurt. So now I write from the thousands I have learned from and hope to help you find the person that will help you blossom into the person and with the love you were meant to share.   www.stevesapato.com    www.facebook.com/stevesapato

EVOLVE~

What Evolved Women Want

WAIT FOR A MAN WHO'S DONE THE WORK

While most women have a natural urge to be nurturing and supportive, relationships are not the place for a man's therapy.

Rescuing a man, even supporting a man who's struggling to find himself or move beyond feelings of insecurity and insignificance will almost certainly set you up to be seen in a motherly role, rather than the one he adores and desires to ravish.

Tiger Woods, Jesse James, Arnold Schwarzenegger and Anthony Weiner were all partnered with magnificently supportive women.

No matter how exceptional his gifts, no matter what his potential, if a man hasn't completed his personal work before the relationship it's hard to win his passion once you've allowed yourself to take on the role of his healer and confidant.

Wait for a man who chooses you rather than the man who needs you.

Graham R White